INCESSANTLY DEGRADING VALUES IN STUDENTS
Our country is rich in its culture and values and is known far and wide across the countries for the same. Our ancestors had been very stringent in matters of values and had inculcated it in us very strongly which got mixed in our genes and is very difficult to be extracted. We have a fair sense of the understanding of good and bad and it clearly reflects in our behavioral attributes too. But its dismal that we are not able to transfer these values to the youths of our country which is affecting their lives badly and has become detrimental for their future too.
Why is this so? We need to address this problem without delay or else it can cause tremendous damage to the future of our country. It should be felt by all be it's parents, teachers, elders or peers equally. As we all know that parents are the first educators and thus initially it becomes the foremost duty of the parents to inculcate good values in their kids from their infancy itself . Secondly at school this duty needs to be shouldered by the Principal's and teachers who should transact values in children through lessons, stories, plays and acts. Elders at home like grand parents should narrate lessons on values which the children like to hear and absorb with lot of interest.
Let's talk about some of the factors highly responsible for the degrading values in children:
1. Children imbibe what the parents do and thus parents need to be extremely careful about their behavior at home. Parents should give due regards to their own parents if they stay with them and also should care for them properly which would be helpful for their own children to comprehend and follow.
2. Devote quality time for your children from your busy schedule. Don't satiate them with costly gadgets and gizmos to compensate for not spending enough time with them.
3, Spend enough time with them on every weekends by taking them for outings like movies, amusement parks, museums, exhibitions etc. whatever may make them happy and may prove beneficial and appropriate for their growth.
4. Spend regularly at least half an hour with them. Enquire them about their well being, studies, school, friends and problems faced by them if any.
5. Help them in their home assignments and studies. This will help them in developing a good bonding with their parents.
6. Never compare them with others as this may hurt their self respect and on the contrary there are chances of loss of self esteem too.
7. Assign them different tasks so as to develop a sense of responsibility in them and also appreciate them when they accomplish it.
8. Never show or talk any words of disrespect for their teachers or elders before them. This will impact their minds and they too will pursue the same.
9. Avoid discriminating and criticizing before them because they too will repeat and follow the same treating it as correct.
10.Be an ideal for your kids so that they follow you in every matter. Instead never do what you don't want them to do.
11.Help and assist them in finding solutions for problems which they may face in their daily life. Teach them not to turn their back from the problems rather face it with courage and serenity.
12.Train them well to handle success and failures equally. They should learn to digest success and on the other hand should be trained to handle failures too.
13.Assist them in setting up their life goals and help strategize to achieve the same with determination and hard work.
14. Educate them to be honest and truthful in life which may definitely help them to escalate the peak of success.
15. Any human being is known and recognized initially by his quality and later by his/her intelligence. Thus teach them to grow and develop as a good human being with good values to be a successful person.
16.Do not over pamper them because the side effects would be unbearable later.
17.Make your child strong, confident and self dependent if you want them and yourself to be happy in life.
Finally, If you want your kids to grow up with good culture and values, just follow the tips given above and remain happy all through your life.
Why is this so? We need to address this problem without delay or else it can cause tremendous damage to the future of our country. It should be felt by all be it's parents, teachers, elders or peers equally. As we all know that parents are the first educators and thus initially it becomes the foremost duty of the parents to inculcate good values in their kids from their infancy itself . Secondly at school this duty needs to be shouldered by the Principal's and teachers who should transact values in children through lessons, stories, plays and acts. Elders at home like grand parents should narrate lessons on values which the children like to hear and absorb with lot of interest.
Let's talk about some of the factors highly responsible for the degrading values in children:
1. Children imbibe what the parents do and thus parents need to be extremely careful about their behavior at home. Parents should give due regards to their own parents if they stay with them and also should care for them properly which would be helpful for their own children to comprehend and follow.
2. Devote quality time for your children from your busy schedule. Don't satiate them with costly gadgets and gizmos to compensate for not spending enough time with them.
3, Spend enough time with them on every weekends by taking them for outings like movies, amusement parks, museums, exhibitions etc. whatever may make them happy and may prove beneficial and appropriate for their growth.
4. Spend regularly at least half an hour with them. Enquire them about their well being, studies, school, friends and problems faced by them if any.
5. Help them in their home assignments and studies. This will help them in developing a good bonding with their parents.
6. Never compare them with others as this may hurt their self respect and on the contrary there are chances of loss of self esteem too.
7. Assign them different tasks so as to develop a sense of responsibility in them and also appreciate them when they accomplish it.
8. Never show or talk any words of disrespect for their teachers or elders before them. This will impact their minds and they too will pursue the same.
9. Avoid discriminating and criticizing before them because they too will repeat and follow the same treating it as correct.
10.Be an ideal for your kids so that they follow you in every matter. Instead never do what you don't want them to do.
11.Help and assist them in finding solutions for problems which they may face in their daily life. Teach them not to turn their back from the problems rather face it with courage and serenity.
12.Train them well to handle success and failures equally. They should learn to digest success and on the other hand should be trained to handle failures too.
13.Assist them in setting up their life goals and help strategize to achieve the same with determination and hard work.
14. Educate them to be honest and truthful in life which may definitely help them to escalate the peak of success.
15. Any human being is known and recognized initially by his quality and later by his/her intelligence. Thus teach them to grow and develop as a good human being with good values to be a successful person.
16.Do not over pamper them because the side effects would be unbearable later.
17.Make your child strong, confident and self dependent if you want them and yourself to be happy in life.
Finally, If you want your kids to grow up with good culture and values, just follow the tips given above and remain happy all through your life.
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